3 Steps To Easy Flirting
Flirting is light, playful, and completely not serious. Though some people have a hard time being able to implement this idea.
You may even be good at not taking things so seriously yet, people are just not catching on.
Step 1 – Entertain Yourself
Think about the way a child see’s the world. Be able to look at life through their eyes. Almost as if you were the center of the universe. There shouldn’t be so much invested in other people while flirting. In fact, you rather should be a bit more self-amused than anything.
Whatever you do or say, should be something that you enjoy. Something that you find funny. You have to actually be able to show that you are enjoying this. You may say a joke or witty line. She may not understand that you are joking around if you are waiting for her to be entertained. Though, if you can laugh at yourself, even rollyour eyes and make a display of amusement it gives her permission to play along as well.
Step 2 – Show Interest
Of course, flirting should have a hint of interest. How else would it be flirting? You don’t want to lay it on thick or take it too seriously either. So you want it to be something that is done almost in passing.
An easy way to do this is to give her compliment. Though immediately after giving her a compliment switch the focus of the conversation. You actually want to go from an emotional topic immediately into logical topic. Something like this.
“You have the most piercing blue eyes, so anyways, do you know this quickest way to broadway?
This will one, capture her full attention and actually knock her a bit off conversational balance. While she thinks about the answer to your question her mind is still trying to interpret what you say. All you have to do is be cool calm and collected in this point, because she will remember you, especially if you keep up a positive presence.
Step 3 – Misinterpretation
This is a bit more advanced though, can be a huge tool to flirt and make her feel like she is with someone that she could never imagine having a bad time with.
Be more conscious of what people are saying. Actually, listen to what they say carefully. See if what they say can be interpreted differently. You do this a number of ways.
You can misinterpret something, by hearing it or saying it wrong.
“You are a psycho, whoops, I mean psychic”
You can misinterpret something, by taking it in a literal sense.
“I have to run home” “Don’t run, I think driving would be faster”
You can also misinterpret things to be a come-on.
“Stop looking at me like that, like I’m a piece of meat”.
Hope this makes sense, this is what I like to call bringing out the ‘big guns’ of flirting. When implementing these, after time they should become natural. Don’t be surprised when you are hanging out with a woman and she can’t control herself because she is laughing and carrying on with you.
Make someone feel good when they are around you, and they will seek to be around you more.
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