How I Met Another – Quick & Easy Flirting Techniques
I was watching How I Met Your Mother today, which is most definitely one of my favorite sitcoms right now. Actually the sitcom is a lost art form, we are seeing less and less of them nowadays.
Well, anyway Neil Patrick Harris’ character ‘Barney’ is great with women. He has his own process for attracting and seducing women. While hearing him outline it on today’s show I was inspired to let go of my process. Well here goes…
Barney says he first ignores the girl and then gives her a back-handed compliment. That’s understandable. In TV world. Since ignoring her only makes you seem like an asshole (which insecure women like) and back-handed compliments only drop her self-esteem (which only works for insecure women, again).
Well, let me show how it’s done in the real world.
I give a girl attention only when she is showing interest. If she isn’t showing interest I give her attention, though it’s categorized differently. Instead it’s more of negative attention (since if you ignore her completely you will lose her). I will talk to her, though seem as if I’m not really paying attention. Like if I’m just doing it to be nice. For instance, while I’m talking to her and holding eye contact, I will finish my sentence by turning away from her, as if I’m about to walk away.
Also verbally I am a master flirt. I do a few things. You can choose to do anyone or mix them up. I say, just take one example and run with it. I’m not going to outline everything I do and know because this would turn into a book (which I’m still working on by the way). So here goes.
I misinterpret what she says as a come-on. I mean anything and everything can be considered a come on.
Sometimes the more ridiculous the better. If you have met a girl and gotten her number but have no idea how to start a conversation over text (of course leading towards meeting her again) try this. I say “hey stop it, can’t you see I’m trying to focus here 
”.
This is implying that she’s flirting with you. It’s not only used in text, you can use it person. Just tell her, “hey, stop, come on, can’t you see I’m trying to focus here, what are you doing?” She’ll say “what?, what?” This is known to some as a form of teasing. Teasing is a good thing. It’s what girls like, just don’t overdo it. Make sure to smile as well.
Another thing that is very powerful is to use roleplaying. Roleplaying is when you put her into an implied role. An imaginary role. Typically it would be best to put each other in a role in which a relationship is formed. If she ever does or says something you don’t like you can say “You know what? That’s it, we are so breaking up, I had enough of this relationship”. You can continue roleplaying, misinterpreting and teasing from here. These all engage her in conversation. Once she’s really engaged, go for the close.
Try these out, they can never go wrong. Just make sure to be light, playful and be smiling. Cheers!
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