101 Ways To Be Attractive & Get Women To Like You
Body Language, Starting At The Top
1. Prolonged Eye Contact. Let her break it first.
2. Smiling with Your Eyes. Imagine your eyes smiling.
3. Genuinely Smiling. Big smile and add the eyes.
4. Nice Haircut. Look sharp. Whatever suits you a stylist knows best.
5. Projecting Your Voice. Visualize your voice hitting the roof of your mouth and shooting out and over.
6. Proper Vocal Tonality. End your sentences in a down-tone rather than an up-tone.
Conversational Dynamo
7. Conversational Pacing. Make sure to leave space between your words. Pausing builds anticipation.
8. Being Expressive. Passionate. You can hear it in your voice if you are truly excited.
9. Being A Good Storyteller. Stories need 6 points. Who, What, Where, Conflict, Solution, Punchline.
10. Joke around and laugh. Unattractive guys take women way too seriously.
11. Telling Her What You Like About Her. Find something about her you respect.
12. Knowing How To Flirt. Misinterpreting what she says, lightly teasing her and roleplaying.
13. Expressing Your Emotions. Talking about how you feel now about a lesson you learned.
14. Using Your Voice To Seduce Her. Speaking lower and a bit raspy brings her in closer to hear.
15. Helping Her Grow. If she keeps saying she wants to do something, eliminate her excuses.
16. Completely Accepting Her. You don’t have to agree, only understand her completely.
Body Language – Moving On Down
17. Shoulders Back & Down. While sitting or standing, unconsciously it displays dominance.
18. Not Looking Down. This accesses the emotional part of your mind and shows submissiveness.
19. Innocent Touch. When joking around, lightly tap her in order to build comfort in your touch.
20. Seductive Touch. To show sexual interest make your touch lingering and sliding.
21. Make Her Chase You Through Body Language. Turn away from her and watch her face you.
Understanding Social Nuances
22. Make Her Sell Herself To You Through Questions. Get her to tell you why she’s awesome.
23. Being Aware Of When She Is Already Attracted To You. She may be bragging already.
24. Not Selling Yourself or Bragging. Do not try to convince her logically you are attractive.
25. Finding Her True Value. There is something that she is amazing at. Tell her.
26. Put Yourself In An Attractive Role. Be the one to make the decisions.
27. Letting Her Feel Freely. Don’t give her a solution, give her your shoulder.
28. Letting Go Of Jealousy. Every guy she talks to makes you look better.
29. Dating Multiple Women. You don’t know quality until you have experienced quantity.
More Body Language
30. Display Dominance With Your Hands. Uncross your arms and use them to talk.
31. Not Leaning-In. Stand straight up, getting her to lean into you makes her feel attracted.
The Advanced Attraction Arts
32. Passing Compliance Tests. You can do what she says, just make sure there is a balance.
33. Passing Congruence Tests. She tests your attractiveness by insulting you. Laugh it off.
34. Leading Her Body. Take her by the hand and lead her to where conversation can deepen.
35. Always Go For Her Number. If you only follow 1 thing on this list. It’s this one.
Be Of High Value
36. Being Social With Everyone. If you have a drink in hand don’t hesitate to cheers others in the bar. It’s okay, it shows your social not trying to “pick up chicks.”
37. Being A Social Ambassador. Introducing people to each other puts you in a leadership role which automatically makes you attractive to women.
38. Make People Feel Good About Themselves. Complimenting people goes a long way. If people feel good around you they will tend to want to hang around you more.
39. Feeling Really Good About Yourself. From time to time you may get a compliment as well. Just say “Thank You” no need to over explain or brush it off. It you accept it you allow people to give you more.
40. Know How To Have A Good Time. Whatever reason you need to go out make that your goal for the night. Don’t go out to get girls. Go out and have a good time.
41. Knowing Your Alcohol Limit. While you are having a good time you will never get over your hurdles if you can’t even remember what you did that night.
42. Get Over The Anxiety To Approach. You Will Get Rejected. You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.
43. Knowing Push/Pull. Pull her in with a compliment, push her away by teasing. “You’re so cute, my friends are going to be mad if they see my talking to you”
44. Not Lying. Please don’t lie. We don’t need anymore women out there putting walls up because the last guy lied to her and broke her heart.
45. Being Non-needy /creepy. Neediness is an attraction killer. You don’t need anyone to have a good time. Entertain yourself.
46. Being Non-approval seeking. Instead of getting people to like you, instead give other people your approval, they will end up liking you anyways.
Game Changers
45. Escalating. You need to make the move. It’s a man’s job to lead and a woman’s job to pace.
46. Isolating. You need to get her in a one-on-one situation in order for her to remember you better.
47. Always Having Something To Say. Be “in the moment” by slowing down and noticing what is going on around you.
48. Encouraging Conversation. Through genuine curiosity Ask specific questions, ask her to describe it to you like you were there with her.
49. Authentic Listening. Dont worry about what you have to say next. Don’t worry about the silent pauses. Really digest what she has to say and confirm you’re listening by paraphrasing what she said back to her.
Body Language – Lower Half Of Your Body
50. Don’t stand with your legs too close to each other. Shoulder width apart, own the space you were given. You deserve it.
51. Take long strides. Short steps look indecisive, unsure and unconfident. Trust me the ground will be there.
52. Bounce In Your step. Bend your knee when your heel hits the ground, bounce a bit up on your toes and walk with purpose.
53. Read Body Language . Your feet are farthest from your logical mind, they point in the direction of your interest. So does hers.
54. Read her body Language . By looking down you access your emotional mind. If she looks down she feels strongly about the current topic of conversation.
55. Get rid of nervous ticks. Slow down. If you keep scratching yourself, playing with the label on your beer bottle. Stop. It makes you look uncomfortable.
56. Shift Your Weight More To One Leg. It looks like a model-esque pose and comes off relaxed. She will relax if you relax first.
Grooming, Clothing, Style & Fashion
57. Fashion is temporary; you create your own style. Model others who dress confidently
58. A bit short, or need pep in your step? An inch or two won’t hurt. Get heeled boots, I prefer cowboy boots.
59. Accentuate Your Physique. Tight fitting clothing shows off your masculine shoulders.
60. One Great Guideline is to not wear more than 2 colors and Black and white are not colors.
61. You can always add your own touch of individuality. Try and stay away from clothing covered in brand names.
62. Your breath is super important. Carry breath mints.
63. Be Mindful Of Appearance. Get opinions from female friends.
Get Rid Of Insecure Tendencies
64. By Speaking Slower, Get Rid of Filler Words (Like, Umm). You will sound more assuring.
65. Loosen Up. If your shoulders are up, hands are in a fist, and or forehead is scrunched up, take a deep breath and relax.
66. Speaking too softly may show submissiveness, speaking too loudly may show over-compensation. Find a comfortable middle ground.
67. Do Not Take Her Crap. If she does something you don’t like, just turn your back to her for a bit, you don’t have to actually fight back. Don’t reward bad behavior with more attention.
68. Don’t Answer Her Questions Too Early. She will come back if she feels like if there is more to you.
69. Do not slouch when you are sitting or standing.
70. Do not chase her when she walks away. If anything, find any another reason to approach her again.
Situational Atttractiveness
71. Flirt non-verbally. In a dancing environment. pretend to have a microphone in your hand and roleplay singing karaoke with her. High-fives, thumb wars and anything cool when you were 8 years old is flirty now.
72. Remember that what you say doesn’t matter. In a loud environment say “I have no idea what you said, but you’re cute”
73. Stop calling girls “hot”. It makes them seem unreachable to you. Call girls “cute” and or “adorable”.
74. Don’t turn your head to quickly when someone calls you. It looks like you have no social life.
75. Don’t act so tough and bold. Taking rejection and shaking it off shows true inner confidence.
76. Don’t over-clarifying yourself. Wait for her to ask you to explain more so she will be more invested.
78. Don’t return to the previous topic of conversation. If you get cut off just stop, if she reengages it will be more powerful.
79. Don’t curse so much. Especially when you just met her.
80. Don’t overcompensate for your insecurities. If you’re passive don’t act aggressive just to get other’s respect. Find middle ground (assertiveness).
81. Act the same way around women as you do around men.
82. Don’t joke around when she is talking about something she is serious about and or has an emotional connection to.
83. Do not buy her things in order to keep her attention. You can buy her something after you get to know each other.
84. Pay attention to her friends to. If her friends are attracted to you so will she be.
This Next May Be The Most Important
85. Pull The Trigger! A girl will forgive you for being a man but never for being a wimp.
86. Have An Active Lifestyle. Fill up your schedule and make it seem like your life is just a very long first date.
87. Have Personal Value. Believe you deserve the best and you will tend to get the best.
88. Have High Social Status. Get social status by having other people depending on you for emotional, intellectual, or financial support.
89. Know How To Steer A Conversation. Link the current topic of conversation to the one you want to talk about.
90. Getting Sexual Through Conversation. Use subtle sexual innuendoes to get her thinking about the same thing. “That is so be-low me”
91. Use Descriptive Language To Get Sexual. Describe how great it is to lick ice cream. “It taste so good in my mouth”
92. Memorize at least 2 flirty lines in case you come up blank. “You are trouble”. “Stop looking at me like that”, add smile.
93. Have A Positive, Uplifting, Supporting and Encouraging Social Circle. Cut off friends if they put you down.
The Home Stretch
94. Don’t Go On A Regular Dinner & A Movie Date. Take her to 2-3 places, where conversation is easy, the park, mall, coffee shop. etc.
95. Don’t “Trade Resumes” Or Have An Interview-style Date. Instead of talking about what you do and where you’re from, talk about what excites you.
96. Be A Gentleman. Insist. Give her your jacket, walk on the outside of the sidewalk, hold the door open and escort her arm-in-arm.
97. Activity Breeds Activity. Objects in motion tend to stay in motion. Start conversation early, the longer you wait, the weirder it becomes.
98. The Same Thing with Touch. If you wait to long to break the touch barrier the more awkward your touch becomes.
99. Understand that you do not need women in your life to make you happy.
100. The best thing you can tell a woman was that you were thinking about her.
101. Ask thought provoking questions. When she gives you an answer, ask her, ‘why?’ Find out what is the reason behind her answer.
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